I said it before and I'll say it again.
Be cool, be respectful, and keep people's shit to yourself...
Or else you're out.
Fuckers are here for help and support.
Unless you have an agreement, keep the details of their lives to your own damn self.
By creating a membership aspect of the site, I've been able to weed out some of the potential danger of posting sensitive information online. Trust me, it's a big deal to me, too.
Sharing is hard enough; worrying about buttholes reading into your private life doesn't help.
Forums and Chats are protected by a Members Login to keep your conversations private.
All members are approved by ME - if something looks shady, they're not getting in.
If someone acts shady after approval - I have no problem kicking them out.