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Private Community

Beyond the public platfrom exists a world of deeper learning and connection.
The "Full Traumatized Motherfuckers Project" is a closed-door community for our disclosure safety, ease of connection, and protection.

Here's the scoop





The TMFR System


Traumatized Motherfuckers is hosted through Patreon to create a brave space
for MFs who are commited to growth, and to keep this DIY project churning.


In it, you'll find:

Your private podcast streaming link, which will automatically update with new episodes each week through your favorite podcasting service

A Discord Support Community option, for finding support from real MFs around the world, day or night, through a chat interface

Advanced resource material options, including bonus episodes, videos, and worksheets that accompany relevant posts






And here's the lowdown on the ever-evolving community options!

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An ethical trauma-note on the TMFR Community. 

Why is this a "closed door" community and series of shows? 

PTSD creates a few personality templates during recovery, if you trust my experiences so far.

During some stages, folks can be reactive, rather defensive, and ready to stir any pot they encounter.

 

You know, been there. But it's not great.

Unfortunately, while these TMFRs are just as deserving of education, help, and support... not everyone is able to self-reflect without exploding. This can undermine the system by destabilizing the "safe, secure, boundary-respecting" community vibe / trigger intended-friends to oblivion. 

As CPTSD is just as likely to produce abusers as abusees, in May 2020 it became "wise" to create a boundary between brain-manipulating information, newbie trauma recoverers.... and people who might not have the best Self-regulation or awareness at this point. 

So the Blanket Fort was born - A safe place where membership is trackable and redactable through Patreon. And it continues to be our best way to stay emotional abuse -distanced, so we can do our trauma recovery damndest.

Join the Blanket Fort when you're ready to really do the work.

But Be Kind, or your ass will get removed from the club.

We're all in this together.

Cheers!

 

REMINDER:

There are inherent risks and rewards with any of our relationships; it’s the nature of CPTSD, ya heard? 

 

Please know that this private group exists because:

  1. You’ll learn immediately that you aren’t alone in this. The shit in your head and subsequent life outcomes are shockingly unoriginal, despite your best efforts to convince yourself you’re uniquely screwed. 

  2. You can learn from each other. People have already waded through the sewage you haven’t tackled yet, and vice-versa. Take real life tips and skip the hard-earned lessons; help others do the same.

  3. You can practice safe, healthy relationships with appropriate boundaries and realistic personal expectations (for both self and other, fucking Fawners). 

 

 

 

All of this being said.

 

There are dangers in “trauma connecting.” There are dangers in spending TOO much time talking-trauma (can attest). There are dangers in exposing yourself to others' trauma. And there are dangers in starting to rely on others before relying on yerdamnself. 

Disclaimer:

 

Enter the community knowing what it does provide - comradery with strangers like you’ve never seen. Self-acceptance. Other-acceptance. Unfiltered conversations about your dark bits. Celebrations of the good days, unravelment of the shit ones. 

 

But also what it doesn’t provide.... This isn’t a crisis resource. This isn’t a professionally moderated discussion board. This isn’t a board to recklessly trauma-vomit before taking time for yourself, ideally with your therapist. 

 

This is a community for people like you, with real lives, real strengths, AND real shortcomings… who are trying to relearn how to live a life they didn't get a chance at, using information they never got the first go-around. 

 

Same goes for the podcast. 

Let's be responsible and respectful, with our mutual recovery always first in mind. 

 

Love you Fuckers. Get safe-connection building. 

 

Jess

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